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		By: Wonderfriend		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://missystevenswrites.com/wonder-why-wednesday-control-edition#comment-371&quot;&gt;Christina&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks so much for stopping by! I relate to checking out. It&#039;s a fight or flight survival thing, I think. It&#039;s nearly impossible to stay engaged 100% of the time. Talk about losing your mind. Aaack.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://missystevenswrites.com/wonder-why-wednesday-control-edition#comment-371">Christina</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks so much for stopping by! I relate to checking out. It&#8217;s a fight or flight survival thing, I think. It&#8217;s nearly impossible to stay engaged 100% of the time. Talk about losing your mind. Aaack.</p>
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		By: Wonderfriend		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://missystevenswrites.com/wonder-why-wednesday-control-edition#comment-370&quot;&gt;gigi&lt;/a&gt;.

I agree, it is easier to be complacent. Or at least it was for me. Now the complacency is starting to eat at me. We&#039;ll see if that motivates me enough to make the changes!!

I was going to say that I&#039;m glad you&#039;re an eggshell person, too, but that is not coming out the way I want it to! What I want to say is that I&#039;m glad the analogy resonated with you. And no apologies needed - this internet is teeming with posts to read. Some get missed along the way (let&#039;s blame the Google Reader, shall we?). ;)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://missystevenswrites.com/wonder-why-wednesday-control-edition#comment-370">gigi</a>.</p>
<p>I agree, it is easier to be complacent. Or at least it was for me. Now the complacency is starting to eat at me. We&#8217;ll see if that motivates me enough to make the changes!!</p>
<p>I was going to say that I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re an eggshell person, too, but that is not coming out the way I want it to! What I want to say is that I&#8217;m glad the analogy resonated with you. And no apologies needed &#8211; this internet is teeming with posts to read. Some get missed along the way (let&#8217;s blame the Google Reader, shall we?). 😉</p>
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		By: Christina		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 00:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Well hello Wonder Friend! 
Gigi has mentioned you so here I am. I love this topic! 
Why do you think we become complacent, relinquishing control, even when it’s within our grasp?
Because...it can be easier. I think of when my kid&#039;s are going crazy and I just can&#039;t deal anymore. I check out. I literally check out and just say yes to them when I would normally say no.  
When it comes to weight loss I think the same thing, I know what to do etc. it&#039;s just committing and sticking with it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well hello Wonder Friend!<br />
Gigi has mentioned you so here I am. I love this topic!<br />
Why do you think we become complacent, relinquishing control, even when it’s within our grasp?<br />
Because&#8230;it can be easier. I think of when my kid&#8217;s are going crazy and I just can&#8217;t deal anymore. I check out. I literally check out and just say yes to them when I would normally say no.<br />
When it comes to weight loss I think the same thing, I know what to do etc. it&#8217;s just committing and sticking with it.</p>
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		By: gigi		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 14:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Somehow I missed the post you referenced here, and I apologize for that. It was a great post. I totally get the eggshell person analogy. I am one of those too.

I think the answer to your question is because it&#039;s easier to be complacent. It&#039;s a lot more work to challenge ourselves and foster change. I mean, we have a ton of stuff going on in our lives...adding major life overhauls to the mix is a bit daunting.

Sometimes, though, those overhauls are forced upon us even when we don&#039;t want them to be, and we listen and act and react.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Somehow I missed the post you referenced here, and I apologize for that. It was a great post. I totally get the eggshell person analogy. I am one of those too.</p>
<p>I think the answer to your question is because it&#8217;s easier to be complacent. It&#8217;s a lot more work to challenge ourselves and foster change. I mean, we have a ton of stuff going on in our lives&#8230;adding major life overhauls to the mix is a bit daunting.</p>
<p>Sometimes, though, those overhauls are forced upon us even when we don&#8217;t want them to be, and we listen and act and react.</p>
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