Comments on: I Miss Junior High

By: liz

liz — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 17:05:33 +0000

When I saw your title, I really hoped this post wasn’t about what I thought – and what it is – about.

Ya know? Sometimes there aren’t answers to be had. Some people have insecurities, jealousy issues and the like, and those qualities don’t surface until you have done something or achieved something that makes them feel threatened.

I hope you feel better soon! Hugs!

By: Rach (DonutsMama)

Rach (DonutsMama) — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 16:32:25 +0000

Blech, I did hate middle school w/ the silly Best Friends necklaces that got returned and re-gifted every other day. Ad sadly, I understand your current pain. Now that I’m a wee bit older *ahem* I find courage to actually talk to the person, but sadly, they still build the walls, pretend nothing is wrong and then carry on w/ their jr. high ways. Hurts my heart too.

By: Ericka @ Creative Liar

Ericka @ Creative Liar — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 01:38:27 +0000

Channel your inner thirteen-year-old. I’ve had to put my shame away before and just come out with what was going on in my heart and in my mind. Sometimes, it ends up being the best thing even if it feels the most awkward.

I wish you luck with this, Missy.

By: Kristen @ Motherese

Kristen @ Motherese — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 20:30:21 +0000

Oh, friend, what a miserable situation. I wish I had a solution for you, but instead I’ll offer commiseration.

A few years ago, my college roommate and bridesmaid stopped returning my calls and e-mails. I really don’t know why, and it bothers me to this day. I have no idea what I did to upset her (and I’ve really wracked my brain) and it upsets me to have no closure on our relationship. I’ve moved on, but (as you can probably tell), being dumped by her still bothers me.

I hope that your own situation resolves itself for the good. And soon. xo

By: Nikki O

Nikki O — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 19:55:11 +0000

I’m a new follower because of this post!

By: Staying Afloat!

Staying Afloat! — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 18:11:37 +0000

First time commenting on your blog, and I just…and I do mean JUST went through this with a friend last month. She was distancing herself for months and then just last mother REEMED me for something I had no control over. I was blindsided by her hurt because she DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING way back when.

We try and teach our children to communicate with us, and with others. Why is it that we don’t follow that rule and keep it all inside?

I hope it gets better for you!

Truly enjoy your blog!

By: Megan (Best of Fates)

Megan (Best of Fates) — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 01:41:35 +0000

*HUG* I am so sorry for whatever is going on with your friends. ‘Cause I can only imagine it’s truly making you feel horrible if you’re longing for middle school, no matter the upfrontness of the horror!

By: Tim@sogeshirts

Tim@sogeshirts — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 22:10:42 +0000

ugh Missy I have been in this situation. The only way out is communication even if you don’t like the answers. It’s the only way to get to the root of the truth.

By: blueviolet

blueviolet — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 20:58:45 +0000

I’m not one to sit back and wonder. I’ll just flat out ask what’s wrong. Would you be comfortable doing that?

I’m so sorry!

By: Christina

Christina — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 20:41:27 +0000

My friend, I am so sorry. People can really suck, intentional or not. I’m sorry you are dealing with this. I’m praying for you Missy!